the-psychedelic-extraterrestrial:

I’m wearing a blindfold, like where did the time go

I know you hear me out there, give me a sign though?

I'mma follow you wherever your mind goes

Baby I'mma follow you wherever your mind goes

Take me away girl, somewhere they won’t be

Hold you closely, look at me, don’t speak

Will you follow me wherever my mind goes?

So will you follow me wherever my mind goes?

-Mac Miller

exceptionals:

me: hey
friend: *after two minutes of not replying* hey whats up
me: *washing the gasoline off myself* not much hbu

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aztecpriincess:

null-al-ghul:

jehovahhthickness:

boricuaboi86:

sweetkimchii:

jehovahhthickness:

sweetkimchii:

jehovahhthickness:

sweetkimchii:

jehovahhthickness:

jehovahhthickness:

jehovahhthickness:

I’m not hitting or beating my kids.

You can’t force morals on to people.

All you can do is hope and pray that your kids grow up and stay on the straight and narrow.

“Punishment only suppresses behavior”

Ok now that I’m on the subject of disciplining children.

What the fuck do you do if talking to your child doesn’t get through to them???

Talking usually will work if you’re trying to understand the child AND setting boundaries in place. Tell me why you are angry xyz, now you can’t push things over but you can punch a pillow. Give options and if those don’t work when you do punish lay out that you gave them options, give them a chance to take them but I’d they don’t then it is a time our or grounding or what have you.

My only source is being a teacher of 2 year Olds for a year but it usually works wonders

What if they refuse to talk and tell you why???

I’d give them space but let them know that you’re there for them. Honestly speaking when a child trusts you, even if they don’t want to speak in the moment, they will eventually come around to talk to you. Because they know you won’t judge or yell or make them feel bad. Usually. And if they’re like throwing a tantrum it’s one of those, okay I see you’re upset, we need to sit down so that we can calm down. I’ll sit with you. Do you need a hug etc.

I used to have a lil girl that threw massive tantrums and she couldn’t /wouldn’t talk in the moment and you’d have to get down on her level and ask, do you need a hug/squeeze a hand/etc. She’d answer yes and want you to squeeze her until she calmed down and was able to vocalize why she was mad.

Thank you for this!!!!! I’m gonna do this with my nephew. He’s turning 5 in January!

Even though he’s an amazing kid, he acts up sometimes and idk how to deal.

You’re welcome! Honestly kids a lot of the time want to be heard and treated like an individual. You got this, listening is key

Fuck that. If my kid ain’t gonna listen to MY rules in MY house, they gonna have a red ass.

You shouldn’t have kids if you look forward to hitting them.

“Fuck that. If my kid ain’t gonna listen to MY rules in MY house, they gonna have a red ass.”

This is one of the reasons why ion want kids b/c of ppl like this.

Patience is the key. 

FACTS

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foxy-mulder:

Hand kissing is sacred, high romance and I think we need to revive it

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